My Boyfriend Calls Me “Prost,Streetgal,B!Tch,***Hol* “.but I Luv Him So much.i Donno Wad 2 do.plz Help Me.?
Question by Ammu f: My boyfriend calls me “prost,streetgal,b!tch,***hol* “.but i luv him so much.i donno wad 2 do.plz help me.?
Our relation started in yahoo msgr b4 3 years.v r 4rm different states.Both of us luv each other very badly.From d beginning of d relation he started doubting me n dat continues till now.After 1 year,he started abusing me mentally and physically.I thought i would change him.(Impossible!i knewit now)
He restricted me completely n says NO to
1.to b a scientist/mathematician n to get into research n had a wish to go abroad and do job for 1 year or so.(RESTRICTS IN STUDIES)
2.He hates me going 4 job.
3.He doesnt like me even talking abt a guy(even an actor),having orkut/facebook account(shouldn’t
add even class guys).
4.He doesnt like me 2 do extracurricular activities like shuttle,violin,chess,presentations etc.
I DID SACRIFICE TO ALL THIS XCEPT THE LAST ONE.SO HE’S ASKING ME TO GET LOST.
As soon as i cum 4rm college,i start talking wid him in fone for 3-5hrs & still he says i am not spending time wid him.He says that i sleep wid all the guys in d college.He asks me to swear on my mom and grany that i didnt talk wid any guy in class even “can u giv me the attendance Sheet”.I swear i dont talk wid any guy in this whole world xcept him.Ofcourse i did once to my Counsellor(60 year old guy).My counsellor sent me a msg by 9:30pm “how r u?r u out of ur Depression?”(I had counselling once coz of depression created by my boyfriend itself).I replied mistakenly 2 my boyfriend saying “am fine dear.thanx” (which i was supposed to reply to the counsellor).he said that i had an affair wid him n had an attraction towards old ppl.He doesn’t even ask me “R U FINE?” even wen i hav sum infection/fever/hyperventilation(WHICH I USUALLY SUFFER FROM).Am stressed.
Everytime a problem cums he’ll start off like “prost,streetgal,b!tch,***hol*”
Am very depressed bcoz everyone left me except my grammy.if my grammy wasn’t there,i wuld b in ORPHANAGE.I havent seen my dad ever since i was born.(he cheated on my mom).my mom was forced to marry another guy n she was wid me till my 10th class.After that,she went off wid my step father abroad(settled there).i didnt like to go bcoz i didnt like my step father.Every1 r gone out from my life.my depressed life.am alone.all alone.even in college,i am DEPRESSED coz ppl dont speak to me well.People hate me.
EVEN THOUGH HE INSULTS ME TO THIS EXTENT,I STILL LUV HIM AND I DONNO HOW TO LIVE WITHOUT HIM.AM FEELING DEAD LONELY.PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP.
MAY BE IT WAS BORING READING THIS.BUT THANX 4 READING WID PATIENCE, FRIENDS.
Best answer:
Answer by jleigh70
You are a fool if you think you are in love and in a good relationship!!!!
Answer by Mysty Shores
haha nice if you can spew out all that crap but then spell “patience” properly and put together sentences like “even though he insults me to this extent, that I think his looks like a troll thread. sorry. stupid people arent literate at all.
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