Depressed Because I Have No Support Please Help Best Answer Gets 10points?

Question by Blossom: Depressed because I have no support please help best answer gets 10points?
I’m 21 years old I have no job I don’t go too school, I been applying everywhere && nothing :( I’m getting really depressed :( I was going too college when I was 19, But I dropped out too go to New York && help my mom financially. Ever since then it’s been really hard on me, everything hit me tough Knowing I was doing something good for my family, I was stuck it was either help my mom or stay in school I worked really hard too make my family happy but at the same time it was tough there was days where I didn’t eat only because I knew I had too send my mom money These past for years been hell for me && My family my mom lost her house everything, My step dad who raised me since I was 8 got deported for being an immigrant. Ever since then we lost everything because he gave me && my family everything. That’s another story though anyway we moved everywhere from San Francisco too the San Fernando Valley && now too Rancho Cucamonga, Only because My mom friend did us wrong && she kicked us out && my aunt in SF also kicked us out So we managed too stay in one of my other aunt’s house for a bit, till my mom decided she wanted too move too her home country but I convinced her for use too move here In rancho instead because she was always saying how she wanted too work && this was her chance too because she doesn’t have papers but my aunt got her in her job, anyways now that she is working && I don’t have a job she’s always putting me down making feel less she will say that I need too look for a job when I have been trying my hardest because she is trying too save up too get an apartment && she can’t do it alone I have no type of support from her I don’t drive I don’t have a car yet I just did my taxes && she said she was going too buy a car so that way I can get my liscence hopefully && I can start driving. But the more days that pass I get stressed knowing I can’t do anything I have too wait ll may to get classes for school it’s just too much I have nobody I feel alone most of the time I just want too hurt myself but I don’t. I don’t know what else too really do what can I do if I been trying why do I suffer the way I do why does my family go through this I just feel like I’m in a trap that I can’t get out of someone please help have you ever gone through so much && felt like just giving up but then something positive happened that kept you going if so please help.

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Answer by chwt emo
evrything happpens for a reason right? do u belive in god if so pray 2 him.. he will surely help u will get a job asap ..jus go out and meer ur old frnds so that they may help u

Answer by Hans
I had a period in my life when everythin was falling to pieces. Medical bills piled up as well as drug use of family members i had to juggle my job, my family, my physical health, my psyciatric health, and job hunting.
I went into deep depressing and fell into a very dark place… I was shipped out of state (IL) to Utah for a therapeutic residential lockdown. (After even more bills from the inpatient crisis hospitals) i was there for over eight months… No freedom, its a legal jail to send your kid to for doing nothing illigal.

This might not like a great place, but i learned alot about anxiety and overwhelming depression.
When was the last time you had some leisure time that you spent how and where you wanted? Im gonna guess awhile..
We need mental vacations at times like these, just google ” dialectual behavioural anxiety coping” and “cogntive behavioural therapy”
These are what helpdd me. Im a year sober, in a steady relationship and work part time….

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