Question by joceytinamom: Can you give me some advice? Its been more or less a year and a half sense I left the father of my two little girls. Violence, substance abuse, verbal abuse, and laziness from his part was all I aver received in return for my love and care. I now have custody of my two little girls per family court, he got drug testing mandated and did not follow thur with it, so per court he is suppose to drug test and pay out of his own pocket for that, now it seems like its my responsibility to call him in for drug testing. In my opinion, ” I want nothing to do with him”. He had his chance to make things right, he took everything I ever did to help him out of his addiction for granted”. At this point and with everything that I have experienced through out the five years of being with him I don’t care about his decisions any longer. He has never supported them in any way, keeps on calling me saying that he wants to see my daughters, that he has ...